Dating can become very difficult when you’re not out. So I would suggest not the stay in the closet forever. Of course you can date some people, try something but that could be better if you have support from your friends and family.
Meeting other guys is not that difficult. There are great possibilities nowadays like internet dating, bars, clubs, LGBT center and support groups. That shouldn’t be the problem.
And what do you mean with let people know you are gay? You should just try to tell your closest friends and parents about it first and all the other stuff comes just in time.
Complicated. I don’t think that he will change his mind about that. I’m also not into younger guys, but that doesn’t mean that you have to stay single. There are definitely some guys 20+ who like younger ones. So don’t give up on that.
She’s really selfish. Not fair since she can’t change it. Don’t listen to her, she will accept it sooner or later.
There is no perfect way to tell your parents that you are gay. It always depends on the situation and how your parents think about gay people. I would just tell them straight that you are gay. Everyone is afraid how the parents could react and of course my dad was also asking me about a girlfriend and stuff before I came out. But he’s totally fine with it…